Mabia Hossain Vabna
3 min readNov 19, 2021

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A Question Should Be Circumspect

Ok, the first thing I’m gonna tell you about a question that we often try to ask a person. What often makes that person feel distressing. But we never care for that. Never alert on their thoughts on what will stream through their heart! Just we take a breath, a preparing tongue and an idle mouth then waste some time throwing that question. Asking about someone’s Error Past!

Recently I have been sawed an interview where Sonia Hossain was repeatedly asked about her past by the interviewer Nusraat Faria Mazhar in the show named Ma VS Bou. This term is not happening for the first time in this relevant field. Even our every life experience every time the whole society looks to pretend like a two years old inquiring kid.

Is this spontaneous?

I don’t think it’s normal. Someone when try to neglect this question then their past be conceived as infernal by the community. A past may not always be as abominable as your thinking. It’s can be much severe emotional what your cognition can’t access. Some of your close ones died and this past of yours surely not a damned at all. Assuredly it’s a moment of mental fluctuation that you won’t feel when you are in a trice of ecstasy.

No means not only a rejection but it is more a restriction, an embarrassment, a resentful, an irritative, etc and mostly feeling uncomfortable. This rejection of feeling uncomfortable by saying a NO should always be given respect by all of us. Each eagerness to find out the answer should know its abridgment.

Past is the time that is gone. Through the concept of the past human can experience time and much able to learn about their life. In that time the set of colorful flashes turns into a pinching impact because of the poor ending of the story. The malformed community seems more focused to train themselves attentional on this kind of story. In a very arduous way, they have to thrust their alacrity via corseting their time out of a very busy schedule. Past always seems in discussion but this yearns of society not.

Disrespect of Words

Can I say something about yourself? Can I throw a defective word to you? I really will not make the world boring about you. Trust me I will be kneading all the condiments with normal information of you. You can reliance on my bawdry what will be able to create a total inverse site of your living. And then obviously I have to give my whole exertion on this so that it can be much helpful to cankered enough for your future.

Just a word relax it’s not much more. Just an article about you can’t be so contemplation to the readers who will never able to be forgotten so please don’t worry. Why are you always equipping yourself with all of these words I don’t know! It’s not much intolerable I think…right? And moreover, you can handle that situation when someone will gonna ask you by pushing your comfort zone into bewilderment. That’s why I’m pretty sure my infantile job in scattering lapsus words about you will not force you to cry in a corner of your darkroom.

All your question is trying to blockade the way of my delinquent words and I understand. How do I dare to create a stormy firmament along with your peculiarity? Before throwing this question can you just answer my one? Do we really have the right to disrespect of words about someone?

Actually, in the cycle of phase, there has a possibility to build an error notion in the viewpoint for a forged word. In pervading the whole phantasy somewhere the speaker never focused as the victim be. After ages, the victim seems to handle the unnecessary view of ecumenic…what a single fight isn’t it?

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